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Making an effort to get better at sex is the perfect relationship improvement tip for both men and women. Very often, the lack of sex or desire in relationships can be the reason for eventual distance and decline between partners. While I don’t consider myself to be a relationship expert, I am aware that good sex is central to a successful relationship. I can also explain how you can improve your sexual abilities. Whether sex is the reason for your relationship’s lack of zest or not, good sex can certainly rescue it. Not every couple has to have the best sex ever to stay together. But if you want to boost your relationship, or if the cause of your relationship is a lack of good sex, then reading these tips can certainly benefit you. As most couples know, during difficult periods in the relationship, healthy and satisfying lovemaking sessions can reduce tension, release endorphins and create strong emotional and physical bonds between two people. To me, that sounds like a very good reason to get better at sex with your partner!
Inexperienced people
For those who are inexperienced at sex, the following tips can also be helpful to improve your love life.
Men – Causes Of Sexual Problems
There are many problems that men with sex when in a long-term relationship can experience. The causes of sexual problems are related to one of the following 99% of the time:
Loss of desire
Men can start to lose desire for no apparent reason and believe that it’s their age which is responsible. This is in fact, wrong.
Erection problems
Men can have weak erections and find it hard to satisfy their partner, or they lose their erection during sex.
Some men find it hard to talk about this problem and may not even do anything to resolve it.
Premature ejaculation
Regularly coming too fast during sex and being unable to find a solution is a typical common reason for relationship problems.
Even men who don’t ejaculate prematurely can have problems lasting for as long as they’d like.
Lack of mental desire
Physical reasons are not the only ones for low libido; some men just have sexual confidence or anxiety issues in their mind which affects their performance in bed.
Lack of sensitivity
Some men just do not know how to touch a woman. This isn’t their fault, they just haven’t developed the right sensibility and intuition. Others are just plain selfish and don’t look after the woman’s needs.
The following tips will help you improve your oral sex skills and give her some of the best orgasms she has ever had. Tips will never replace through knowledge and implementation of the basics of learning how to go down on her. Tips however are best utilized and understood, when the basics are well mastered. Keep that in mind as you browse this article for ideas that may help you give your lady more pleasure.
1. Softly kiss all the way down one of her thighs and when you reach her vulva, give the area surrounding her clitoral hood a soft kiss and continue to kiss up her other leg to the back of her knee. Repeat this 2 or 3 more times.
2. After she has had an orgasm, give small kisses to her upper thighs and the area surrounding her clitoris. She will sing accolades to your name. Start for a second orgasm if she can handle it.
3. Don’t fight against the rhythm of her body and arousal, flow with her. If her body speeds up, speed up your licking to match and vice versa. If her arousal drops smoothly change your stimulation to increase it again.
4. I call this the Triple Pleasure technique: Place the palm of your non-dominant hand on her pubic mound and carefully press down while you are stroking her G-spot and licking her clitoris. The key to this is to lick her clitoris and stroke her g-spot simultaneously. The three movements are done at the same time. Move the skin of her pubic mound up so that her clitoral hood moves to expose her clitoris. As that is being performed you stroke her G-spot and lick her clitoris, all in unison. Continue to do this slowly and rhythmically. Let her pleasure build gradually. Give your strokes more intensity and speed as she gets more aroused.
5. Vaginal stimulation feels a lot better to her after lots of teasing. It feels even better when you have given her a clitoral orgasm or two. The area becomes engorged and ready for stimulation after she has had an orgasm. The G-spot and the A-spot respond much better when she is heavily aroused from a clitoral orgasm or teasing.
6. Allow her body to build orgasmic energy by bringing her close to orgasm and then gradually decreasing the speed and pressure while telling her to let the sensations spread through her entire body
These tips are a lot more effective when viewed in the context of the basics of going down on a woman. Master the basics of how to go down on her and tips become nearly trivial.